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I write about the connection between our thoughts, emotions, and experience of life.

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Other People's Feelings

This comes up a lot for my clients. As they begin to know themselves better and want to make some life changes, they worry about what the...

A Possibly Unpopular Opinion

Why are we so obsessed with staying alive, no matter how much it hurts? I see these commercials on TV for prescription medications that...

Notice unique beauty

I read a lot of history, both actual history and historically researched novels. One thing that always strikes me is that when people‘s...

Love and marriage

Or domestic partnership, or romantic relationship, or shacking up, or whatever it is when two people who love each other commit to living...

What would you take with you if you left?

For years this was my favorite fantasy. When I was having trouble falling asleep at night, I would sooth myself by making my list. The...

The little forest

We create our own inner landscape. When I was very small I had three close friends: my Irish Wolfhound Marigold, blueberries, and a...